had a really nice conversation with my ex tonight. he has put an offer in on a flat near me in streatham with a garden so that will be nice for Jack. he is going on holiday to thailand next week! I was wondering how he had managed to save enough for the deposit but he is getting a 100% mortgage so that answered that one. I was kind of worried about Jack when I first had him full time as it meant I could not go out as much and certainly could not go anywhere straight from work so missed all the leaving drinks etc. Now I have gotten used to it and am worried about him living with Nige more of the time – fickle us dog owners you know never can make our minds up what we want – oh and jack has an ear infection too to add to his woes this week – poor ickle mite.